John 14:1 – Let not your heart be troubled; ye believe in God, believe also in me.

Why? Or Why now? Or Why them?

I think these are the most commonly ask questions.  So many of my Christian friends always tell me we should never ask God the “why” questions.  I say, “Why not?” Many times, asking “Why” helps us to accept the reality of what’s happened.  So, it’s OK to think about why this has happened.  Let these questions help guide you to the acceptance of the reality that this is not a dream.  My loved one has really passed over and my heart just aches.

It’s okay to ask God these questions.

He’s not fragile.  He can handle it without thinking bad of you.  Because He made you.  He knows what you’re feeling is natural.  But, after you think about the “why” questions for a while – then you’ll probably move on, like most people, to the next important question . . . “What’s next?”.  How can I possibly go on without them?  What do I do now?  How will my life be different?  What if I can’t handle the things I need to?  Now what?  What if?  What . . .?  These are all normal questions that most people ask.  But today, just for now, I want you to consider doing this:

Bring your thoughts under control.  Think of something you and your loved one did together; traveled together, had fun together.  Now, thank God for allowing you to have that moment together.  And finally, just relax and let your body rest.

Things will really be alright.  You’ll see.

 

*Please begin with “Devotion 1”.  They are progressive.

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Lee Gilliam
Lee Gilliam
Lee is the co-founding designer of Overcoming Grief and author of 2 books and numerous articles. He has been in the ministry for over 40 years. He has traveled to over 80 countries and every state in the USA. His ministerial work involves both teaching and business. He is a mentor to pastors and business leaders alike. He is currently working on his upcoming international conference schedule and we will post it when it's ready. We hope you can attend one that will be close to you!! Please contact me at: leeg@overcominggrief.org